Going away to college can be one of the most exciting times in the lives of both student and parent. It is a time for your college students to find their feet, their own voice, and begin a journey of independence. Many children long to be older and more independent, but fail to realize the real implications. They may chase more responsibilities or greater independence only to find that they cannot cope. A bad situation can quickly become worse if they fail to admit their mistake or feel shame in seeking help. We can be guilty of this as fully fledged adults too! Before your child goes away to college or early on in their college career, it can be helpful to make them aware of help that is available. That way they need not feel embarrassed about constantly contacting you and can seek some help through their own initiative too. It is important to discuss the fact that asking for help is not an admission of defeat. It is not a sign of weakness or childishness. Asking for help can be one of the bravest things we can do. It is a sign of maturity to acknowledge when you are struggling and taking steps to address it.

There are many problems your child might encounter during the course of a degree or qualification. Problems can be financial, emotional, physical and more. But there is a greater range of help available than ever before, from trained professionals to peer support groups. Read on to discover the sources that you and your child can rely on when you need to.

Student Unions

Many colleges and institutions have what are known as student unions. They are often located in a physical building that is used for socializing, meetings, workshops and more. What many students and their parents don’t know is that student unions provide far more than just campus fun. They can offer counseling services, financial advice, accommodation suggestions and more. Becoming familiar with your student union and the services it offers can save a lot of time and energy. You or your child may be trying desperately to find a reliable source of advice on a topic. But the student union may have the information right on your doorstep, so to speak. Because student unions are often fun and organizing parties and events, it can be easy to overlook their serious side. The best student unions are designed to protect, advise and represent students. Not just entertain them! If you or your child are experiencing doubts or problems relating to the student experience, don’t hesitate to contact the union. If they don’t have the answers, they can easily put you in touch with someone that will.

Churches and Inter-Faith Groups

Many people are spiritual without considering themselves religious. Equally, many people have been brought up with religion but “lost touch” with it as they get older. Many student churches and organizations fully recognize these circumstances. More than ever before, their events are open to people who want to explore faith or just be in a non-judgmental, welcoming environment. Churches, meditation groups, or inter-faith organizations can be an overlooked source of emotional support. They often offer services and support groups for students feeling lonely, homesick or isolated. This may be because of their faith, or it may be another reason. But many students find great help and solace in exploring their faith or simply mixing with students on a more spiritual path.

Academic Support Services

Support for studying can take many forms. Many students find themselves struggling to adapt to a higher level of academic study. This is normal but it does need to be addressed quickly for a successful time studying. Students should be aware that questions and seeking clarification is encouraged. They should never feel embarrassed or hesitant to ask tutors for further advice or guidance. Many tutors even hold after class sessions for students to discuss their concerns outside of class. It can be intimidating to ask a question with a whole class’ eyes on you. But tutors can meet during office hours or in small groups. Academic support can also come in the form of reputable internet services and support groups. Some websites provide a term paper writing service. These can be used as essay guidance or inspiration, and can be tailored to meet specific needs. Academic support is what every university and institution should be proud to provide. Encourage your child that a student should never feel afraid to ask how to improve his or her learning.

Law Enforcement

Campus security needn’t only be a source of help during genuine emergencies. College life should also include a greater level of self-awareness and safety. It is more important than ever for a student who is away from home to be vigilant. They will need to protect themselves, their property, and be aware of their rights. Many police precincts and officers will give special talks to students on safety and even how to make a complaint. There are often numbers to ring in case of non-emergencies but that still require attention. It can be easy to overlook the police as a worst case scenario. But new students should take advantage of the specific support and advice they can offer them.

Doctors

Many new students inevitably find themselves sick in the early weeks of term. The stress of being away from home, mixing with others at close range, and even a different climate can take its toll. But doctors don’t only offer advice for when we’re seriously ill. Doctors also give advice on sleep hygiene, preventative measures, and sexual health, for example. They can put us in touch with other professionals like nutritionists or physiotherapists too. Instead of typing symptoms into a search engine, more of us should rely on the advice of training professionals. Students should know that they are never wasting a doctor’s time by visiting. Putting their mind at ease can be very important and save a lot of time, energy, and disturbed sleep. Doctors can give confidential advice and help us to take better care of ourselves at any age. Encourage your child to register with a local doctor as soon as they arrive and they will always feel more in control of their body and health.