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Making the dorm room feel like home

 

Going away to college is exciting for students everywhere, yet many find themselves plagued by feelings of homesickness long after settling into their new dorm room. This is a perfectly natural feeling. After becoming accustomed to one set of surroundings for so long, it can be difficult to adjust to a whole new environment. If you find yourself missing home day after day, one of the best things you can do is try to make your dorm feel more like home. A bit of creativity and some clever decorating can make your dorm feel much more comfortable and help to ease your homesickness.

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Personalize your surroundings

College dorm rooms are not designed to feel like home. In fact, they are often purposefully bland and unassuming so as to be as palatable as possible. Think of your dorm room as a blank canvas. Look around and you’re most likely faced by white walls, utilitarian furniture, and perhaps a minimalist kitchen. Not particularly inspiring, is it? However, adding a few personal touches to your dorm room’s bland decor can easily turn your dwelling into a much more comforting and inviting space.

Start with your walls

Unadorned walls can be terribly bleak and disquieting, especially at times when you are missing home. Remember, however, that your dorm room walls are bare for a reason–they are meant to be filled. Cover your walls with art, posters, or your favorite photos of family and friends. You may not be able to bring your favorite people and places with you to college, but you can fill your living space with warm reminders of them to make yourself feel more at home. If you have any favorite wall hangings at home, bring them with you. Nothing helps to make you feel more at home than a piece of your old room hanging on the wall of your new one.

Turn your bed into a sanctuary

Sleep is more critical than ever when you’re in college, and an uncomfortable bed could be standing in between you and your nightly rest. Whether you’re laying down for a night of shut-eye or just lounging around the room, it always helps to have a bed that welcomes you. Bring your favorite covers and pillowcases from home, and spring for a comfortable foam mattress cover if you need some extra cushioning. A comfortable bed will help you feel well-rested and refreshed every day, and that is very important for keeping your spirits high.

Use your decorating sense

Think of other creative ways to make your room more welcoming. Throw down an area rug next to your bed so that you don’t have to put your feet down on a cold, hard floor every morning. Set up lamps to give yourself a comfortable and soothing level of light in your room. Think about home decoration trends in your home town. Remember your favorite trends for home remodeling in St Louis, or whatever your home town may be, and apply them to your dorm room space. You don’t have to feel like an outsider during your college years, and if you make your dorm room comfortable, you’ll always feel at home.

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5 Ways for students to avoid college sickness

 

college sicknessWith tons of college students crammed into dorms and classrooms, it’s not surprising that ailments spread like wildfire on campus, especially when you add sleepless nights, high stress, poor diet, and a general lack of physical fitness to the equation. And yet, the college students in your family need not succumb to the illnesses that plague their peers on campus, even if they are so caught up in their studies that they make health their last priority.To avoid college sickness, here are just a few pieces of advice you can instill in your kids  before they leave home:

  1. Prioritize R&R. Burning the midnight oil and letting anxiety rise without respite are two great ways to ensure that your body forces you to take a time out by contracting an illness. While students might not think that they have the time in their busy schedule to get the rest and relaxation they need, it often boils down to a matter of planning and prioritization. Sure they could stay out late with their friends, or they could choose to go out for a little while and then come home and hit the hay for a full night of rest. Taking time to relax with some yoga or even a couple chapters of fun reading (not related to a class) is possible when studying is done in a timely manner instead of put off until the last minute.
  2. Drink plenty of fluids. Proper nutrition is essential to good health, but one of the best lines of defense against illness is a large daily dose of fluids to keep a body hydrated and flush out toxins. Water is generally best, so let students know that soda and coffee don’t really figure into the eight-glasses-a-day rule.
  3. Use hand sanitizer. In general, the best way to keep kids from spreading germs is to have them wash their hands frequently throughout the day. But college-age kids might not be keen to run to the restroom between every class. For this reason, mini bottles of hand sanitizer are a great option. They can fit in a backpack or purse and keep hands that touch food and faces from transmitting the germs their classmates inadvertently share.
  4. Get a flu shot. Your teens have no doubt had all of their immunizations by the time they head off to college, but flu shots must be received annually in order to protect students from this virus. Shots may not be fun, but if they keep your student from spending a week in bed with a fever, body aches, and all manner of other symptoms they’re well worth a momentary sting.
  5. Keep regular doctor visits. Good health is an ongoing process, and it requires the help of professionals not only when something is wrong, but for regular checkups and preventive care. Since your teens will probably remain on your insurance during their time in college, find them a doctor in their area that’s on your plan and remind them when they’re due for a physical. And for times when they’re unable to avoid illness, put the number of the doctor or your policy provider’s premier patient line on speed dial.

 

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Stocking up on college wardrobe essentials

 

Your teens would happily waltz off to college wearing the torn jeans and stained tees that saw them through high school. But as a parent you know the power of first impressions, and you want your kids to set their best foot forward when they enter the ivory tower of learning. They have all semester to prove that they’re bright, insightful, and motivated to work hard, but if they show up to class in clothes that you wouldn’t even donate to charity they will be making a bad first impression. It’s important that you take the time to help them find wardrobe essentials that are comfortable but appropriate.

Here are just a few suggestions of college wardrobe essentials for your college bound teen.

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Get rid of the worn, ratted clothing

The first thing you should do is get rid of the raggedy old jeans and tees that seem to have become the staple of every teen wardrobe. Even if all you can get your teens to agree to is a brand new and cleaned up version of these outfits it will be an improvement over the gnarly threads they currently sport. But if at all possible, you may want to push them to expand their style borders and adopt a few pieces that will help them to appear like they’re serious about their education. It’s not as though they have to wear a prim and proper uniform, but wardrobe selections are not only important with college staff, they make  either positive or negative impressions with other students.

Take some professional attire

In truth, it’s not a bad idea to have at least one suit handy for situations like internship or job interviews, and a few business-casual pieces couldn’t hurt either. Slacks can provide a nice change from jeans for guys or girls, as can buttoned shirts, which can be just as comfortable as other options while looking a lot more put-together. A jacket can add finish to any outfit. Remind your teens that there are ways to make these pieces portray their personality by dressing them up with accessories (scarves, jewelry, cool kicks, etc.). They can work to make a wardrobe appear more polished while still showing off the style that they rank as a top priority when it comes to creating great outfits.

Don’t forget to pack climate appropriate clothing

Another thing to consider when selecting an appropriate college wardrobe is the climate your students will live in. If they’re used to the temperate climate of sunny southern California, they may have a rude awakening when they head off to college in Michigan or New York. So it’s important to outfit them with all the cold-weather clothing they’ll need to survive their jogs across campus in below-zero temps. This could include long Johns, wool socks, and an arctic parka, as well as gloves, hats, and scarves. Rather than letting them pack bikinis and gowns for prom that they’ll never use, store their less useful clothing at home so they can come back for it later and send them to college with a wardrobe that truly suits the needs of their new environment.

 

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Working part-time during high school

 

The Essential Guide to High Schooler's Prepping for College

As a parent, you’re not only responsible for helping your teen get into college but also for making sure they’re prepared for it. From money management to studying skills, college requires a diverse set of skill sets. Just getting good grades in high school won’t effectively train your student for the demands of university life.

Perhaps balancing after school activities, household chores and a job will:


Encourage Exploration

Teens who work during high school — at the city swimming pool, mayor’s office or local burger joint — will gain valuable insight about themselves, their working habits and career aspirations. Their career choice may change, but it’s what they learn that’ll prove useful in college. Part-time work can help a teen discover and develop his or her natural traits, such as leadership, communication or team player abilities. By the time they get to college, working teens will already be experienced and ready to make decisions about classes, majors and career choices.

Resume Building

Some teen job seekers aren’t sure what a resume is, don’t think they need a resume, or aren’t sure what to include.

Even though, a resume isn’t required for a lot of teen jobs, a resume can bolster the chances of getting hired. Plus, the teen will have more information to put on the resume than one might think. Even if, it isn’t formal work experience, it doesn’t matter — include other types of work like house sitting or volunteering experiences.

Apply for jobs by making a list with your teen:

  • Name, address and contact info
  • School, work, volunteering history
  • Skills and experience
  • Accomplishments such as awards, sports, honor roll, etc

Develops Independence

A teen who’s expected to balance homework, after school activities, a social life, and work will have to learn time management and responsibility. If handled properly, this can provide teens with a great opportunity to mature and find their independence. As parents, we often try to micro-manage our kids’ lives as a way to lead them down the right path. Do that, but when they hit a certain age, you need to cut the cord. Let them make some of their own life decisions, even if it means guaranteed bumps in the figurative road of the future. They’ll learn from those mistakes and be grateful you let them.

They Learn to Communicate

If you have a sometimes strained relationship with your 15-year-old — and who doesn’t — it can make you wonder how one would handle a working relationship with co-workers or a boss. Conversing regularly with people who aren’t their friends or family members provides a good experience for teens. They learn to communicate with people who don’t already like or know them. It can be rough, but it’s essential. Fast forward five years and that teen will be in college and need those skills when participating in group projects.

Building Confidence

Being aware of ones natural talents is one thing, but having confidence in ones ability to try is another. Teens need experience in learning from mistakes. Working part time will undoubtedly present opportunities for this. If handled properly, teens will learn how to apply criticism and improve — which will help them build confidence as they see reputation isn’t built on skill alone but also on their ability to try, and try again. College life and all that it includes can sometimes be rough. Your student will need a degree of confidence to succeed — help them build it.

Saving for college

Working part-time during high school will also give your teen the opportunity to save money for college. This money can be used for purchasing books, travel expenses, living expenses and even tuition, translating into less money to borrow while they are in school.

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Preparing for college studies

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There comes a time when parents have to send their children off to the world of university or college, and hope that the child acts appropriately and completes the studies in a mature manner. Though independent, there are certain lessons that parents should strive to teach the child before they leave home to enter their first year of college studies.

The following are four ideas and lessons parents should teach their child to ensure they are preparing for college studies:

Teaching Healthy Study Habits

Encouraging a healthy study habit is important, but first the student must learn the study habits that are going to help them to excel in their classes. Teaching methods to remember and recall information, habits to study alone and as part of a group, and habits that can help the student to embed the information to their memory are essential for students transitioning to a university setting.

Parents should emphasize the fact that cramming, or waiting until the last minute to study large amounts of material, isn’t an effective way to absorb the information. Proper organization and planning is required for successful studying. Encouraging healthy eating and sleeping habits as part of the lifestyle can help students to get in the right state of mind for studying.

There are classes parents can register the student for that teach basic studying techniques, as well as identifying the type of learning that works best for your child. Using these classes, parents and students can find studying techniques that work.

Teaching the Student to Ask for Assistance

There are many sources of assistance available throughout the post secondary education. Students can find help through study sessions taught to enhance the information that has been learned in the lecture hall, group sessions between peers that can be used to understand ideas, and tutoring services that are available through the university or college, free of charge.

It’s important to teach the student that it’s okay to ask for help, and learn about the options that are available for the student to find the help needed. Asking for help at the beginning of the confusion of concepts, rather than waiting until the concept has been built upon, can help the student to understand the lessons being taught.

Teach Short and Long Term Goal Setting

Parents should teach students the importance of setting goals and the differences between short and long-term goals. Creating goals that are semester wide and education wide both as short and long term can help the student to reach their goals.

It’s important to teach the student to set goals that are achievable and realistic to be reached within the time frame. Always include a time frame that includes completion of the goal. A goal without a timeline is not a goal at all. Teach the student that it’s okay to reward themselves once the goal has been reached, but rewards should be practical and match the type of goal that has been completed.

Teach Accountability

Unlike high school, where students have teachers and parents that ensure the work is being completed, students are held accountable to themselves in post secondary school. If work is incomplete and tests aren’t attended, zero marks are given to the student.

It’s important for the student to realize that they are held accountable to themselves and that they are solely responsible to study and get the course work completed. This is one of the most important things to teach the student before they head off to college (especially for students that are leaving home and going to school). Students must be aware of the privilege and cost that comes with post secondary school and ensure that the lessons are being absorbed, to avoid a squandered education.

The combination of these four lessons can help to increase the chances that the student is going to be successful in their first and subsequent years of post secondary studies.

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Author Bio

Ryan Ayers is a writer who creates informative articles relating to education. In this article, he offers tips for students to prepare for college and aims to encourage further study with a Master in Higher Education.

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Why engineering degrees are still worth the resources

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There is a great deal of cynicism about the value of a collegiate degree these days, as unemployment soars and many people, even those with higher-level education, find themselves unable to find meaningful work.  While an English or Theater degree may be less valuable than the student would have hoped for, the good news is that an engineering degree can be worth every penny put into a person’s education.  The number of engineers in today’s society are far lower than the current demand for their services, making it not only easy for job placement, but also for picking and choosing where you would like to work.

The Money Talks

The National Association of Colleges and Employers suggests that there are few degrees that are more valuable to a student than engineering itself.  Four out of the five highest paid majors go to engineers, with petroleum engineering topping the scales at an average paycheck of one hundred thousand dollars for an entry-level position!

While a degree in computer engineering does not pay six figures, it is still possible to earn over fifty thousand dollars per year upon graduation.  What’s more, this value is sure to increase over the course of an entire career.  For a person who works for forty years, an engineering degree will provide half a million dollars more in salary than a person with just a high school education.

The Reason For the Pay

Why are engineering degrees and educational paths so much more valuable than other professions?  The answer is simple; it is a case of supply and demand.  Fewer and fewer students are going into engineering in all forms, with only five percent of all graduates holding these golden degrees.

In the United States, this imbalance is especially profound.  Other industrialized nations like Germany and Japan suffer from far more competition, with as many as one third of all students graduating with engineering degrees, but in the United States this particular career path is much more rarely taken. Engineering jobs are continually becoming available worldwide, such as the number of jobs that went into engineering at the Olympics every four years.

How Much Should You Pay For a Degree?

If you go to a major, well-respected technological university, you could realistically expect to pay about two hundred thousand dollars for a five-year engineering degree.  This kind of debt can keep a person in tuition bills for much of their life, even if their highly regarded degree gives them favorable job placement for a firm.  For a state school, however, you may pay only about ten thousand dollars per year for tuition (that figure is about double for out-of-state tuition).  This figure, however, does not include books, housing, fees, or other sums like parking.

How to Pay For the Education

Student loans have now eclipsed credit card debt as the number one source of owed money in the United States.  For those who want to pursue a degree in engineering, it may be necessary to take on significant debt in order to pursue a high-profile career.  For those who want to start a career, move to a new city, or purchase a house, it may be extremely difficult if they have several figures worth of student loan debt.

It is far better to get a type of aid for your education and reduce the payments as much as you are able to over the course of your schooling.  Since nearly all engineering degrees require five years of study, the financial commitment is even greater.  The good news is that the final year is usually spent in a co-op program where the student will earn money, so that it is not always necessary to take out loans for the final year of schooling.

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William Stevens is a blogger who creates informative articles relating to engineering. In this article, he explains the financial situation around a degree in this field and aims to encourage continued study with a  master of engineering in civil engineering.

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How universities are making emergency situations stress free for families

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Today it is perfectly normal for a parent to worry for the safety of their child in the classroom.  Tragically, it appears there is no safe place for a child, even in the grade school classroom.  It is natural for parents to be particularly concerned about the well being of their child once they send them off to receive a college education.  Universities are taking measures to deal with this, and are consciously forming plans for properly dealing with emergency situations.

Emergency Response Guides

Most universities provide their students with an emergency response guide.  This guide provides the student with emergency contact lists.  It also lays out the chain of command that is in place at the school to deal with emergencies.  It will make clear where information can be found during the event of an emergency.  It will give general outlines for how different types of emergencies will be dealt with.  For example, emergencies that are discussed may include the injury of a student, or a fire, chemical spill, disruptive riots or protests, natural disasters, or utility outages.

It is important for parents to familiarize themselves with the emergency response guides that are in place at the university their child will be attending.  This will ensure that there is a sound system in place in case of emergencies, and will also provide you with the information you will need in the event of an emergency.  Familiarizing yourself with the emergency response guides is a way to eliminate the anxiety and stress that can be caused by a fear of the worst possible situation.

Communication

Almost all universities follow three basic steps when dealing with an emergency.  These steps are preparedness, response, and recovery.  Universities have a formula in place that they will follow in the event of an emergency.  During the response, the disaster will be dealt with.  For example people will be rescued and the emergency will be put to an end, or endured until it naturally ends.  The response involves communicating with parents, the press and the general public.  Once the physical safety of the students is ensured, communication takes place.

This communication is particularly important to parents.  There is probably nothing more frightening than imagining knowing that your child is in the midst of an emergency but not begin able to communicate with them to find out how they are being affected.  Most universities will provide students and parents of students with telephone numbers that can be called in order to receive up to date information during the event of an emergency.  They will also provide parents with a web address that can be accessed online in order to find information.  Parents can also refer to Facebook and on campus text messaging systems to find information.

The Recovery step of dealing with an emergency on campus takes place after the emergency, and involves getting the daily functions of the university up and running again.

Weather

Although there is the chance of manmade emergencies, a major source of most emergencies that can strike during your child’s higher education is nature.  Some larger universities have received what is called a StormReady designation from the National Weather Service.  This means that weather is monitored on campus and that a hazardous weather plan is in place.

The weather is monitored 24 hours a day and the university is prepared to contact the students, parents and the public in advance of a major storm.  Parents that are looking to rest easy in regards to their child’s safety may prefer to send them to a university with the StormReady designation.

There is much that cannot be controlled during an emergency, but many universities are taking the steps they can to reassure families that they are prepared to deal with disasters in an efficient manner. These measures are being advanced and perfected through such studies as an Online Safety Degree.

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Necessary tech gadgets for students going to college

 

The days of being able to pass your classes with only a pen and a notebook have long passed.  Today, many colleges mandate that you need to have certain materials like laptop computers in order to just sign up for courses.  There are five necessary tech gadgets that you have to have if you want to graduate on time with good grades.

Laptop Computers

tech gadgetsWith many courses taking place online in today’s universities, it is more important than ever to be connected with your class and classmates.  Laptop computers not only allow you to connect to online databases like the popular Blackboard system, but also to email teachers and other students in order to get information about the next class assignment or the big final.  If you need to work in a team on a project, you will have to coordinate schedules and make plans for each step of the way.

Some courses require using specific software: a foreign language class, for instance, will require that you download the voice tools and letter commands in order to complete assignments in a different tongue.  With a good deal of research taking place online, furthermore, access to the Internet at all times is crucial, especially when partaking in an online degree .

Laser Printer

It used to be possible to turn in assignments on scratch paper or by a living hall’s typewriter.  Today, however, each student needs to have the ability to print out materials in color.  Complex graphics may be necessary for a PowerPoint presentation or from a picture taken off the Internet.  Having a standard printer may not be satisfactory for an assignment.  Spending a lot of money on the university printers, furthermore (who may charge as much as a quarter per page) means that buying a printer will soon allow the purchase to pay for itself.

Flash Drives

Whether you need to transfer notes or entire papers to and from, a flash drive allows you to convert digital into physical and back again.  Once you have an assignment, put it on your flash drive and you can have a reliable backup or share it with classmates.  In the event that a computer crashes, is corrupted, or is even stolen, you will be able to keep all the vital information on a flash drive and turn in that assignment without having to re-type dozens of pages.  In addition to papers or PowerPoint slides, you can move movies and music on a flash drive to better impress your friends.

Smart Phone

A text-only phone may be a bit cheaper, but will leave you well behind if there are specific applications that can help you achieve success in your class.  With a smart phone, you can take pictures, connect to the Internet, check email, and quickly look up saved information — as well as talk and text with your connections.  Whether a course updates information on Twitter or whether there is a physics app that will help you through intense calculations, a smart phone is a crucial tool for surviving the rigors of college.

LiveScribe

For those who still want or need to take notes the old fashioned way, LiveScribe is the modern version of shorthand.  You can put down information with the pen and then connect it to a computer.  The system automatically transcribes written words into digital documents, so that you can email your notes or check them against a textbook.  Better still, the audio record system will let you compare the notes that you have written against what the professor actually said in lecture class so that there is no worry about missing the small details that come up on tests.

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Author Bio

Ryan Ayers is a writer who creates informative articles in relation to education. In this article, he describes a few gadgets for college students and aims to encourage further study with an Online Masters of Education.

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Top 5 college adjustment tips for parents

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Sending your kids off to college will bring changes into your life. Not only will you have to learn to deal with concerns about health and safety once they’re out of your sight, but you’ll also have the loneliness of an empty nest to contend with. And then, of course, you’ll likely go through an adjustment period with finances. Plus, you’ll have to give up on the notion that your rules and advice carry the ability to influence your kids from afar. In short, it is a transitional period not only for the kids going off to college, but also for the parents left behind, forced to find a new way to live now that they no longer have the immediate demands of parenthood filling their every waking moment.

Here are just a few tips for parents that should help you to navigate this trying time in your life.

  1. Get a hobby. Now that the kids are off to college and intent on living their own lives, you may find yourself with a lot of free time on your hands. While most people would revel in this break from responsibility, the fact that your children are gone could have you moping around the house and missing the pitter patter of little feet (or the blaring music and slamming doors of your teens). A mourning period may be necessary, but there’s no need to prolong the suffering. Spend a few days watching TV and eating comfort food and then find a new way to spend your time. You might take a cooking class, join a gym, or take up gardening. Or you could start a book or movie club with friends. There are a myriad of ways to entertain yourself when you don’t have the pressing concerns of kids taking up all your free time.
  2. Take a trip. Parents often have a hard time figuring out where their relationship will go now that their focus isn’t mainly on the kids. Luckily, this is an excellent opportunity for you to get to know each other again, exploring interests that have long been pushed aside in favor of caring for children. Book a cruise, a weekend camping trip, or a Grand Tour of Europe and use that time to fall in love with your spouse all over again.
  3. Re-budget. Providing for higher education can be quite a balancing act when it comes to your finances. On the one hand, costs may go up significantly thanks to the exorbitant price of tuition, books, and living expenses. On the other hand, parents that plan ahead could have a college fund in place to cover these costs. And if students obtain scholarships, loans, or grants, not to mention paying a portion of their own way by working part-time, you may find yourself with some extra cash on hand. Either way, now is a good time to reevaluate your household budget in order to adjust it accordingly.
  4. Set some ground rules. You won’t have much control over your kids once they’re on campus, but you can still set a few ground rules. For one thing, if you provide a credit card it should be limited to use for school supplies and meals, for example (or else it gets cancelled). And you might want to let your students know that failing to attend class or achieve passing grades, in essence wasting your money, will lead to them getting cut off financially.
  5. Loose the reins. Obviously you’re not going to hire a security company in London or Los Angeles to follow your kids around campus. But if you’re calling them daily and trying to exert undue influence over every decision (from the majors they choose to the food they eat) it’s time to take a step back. If you’ve done a good job raising your kids you have to trust that they have the knowledge and skills to care for themselves and make good decisions. But if you insist on insinuating yourself into their lives you’re only going to alienate them, or worse, destroy their self-confidence and turn them into co-dependents for life. So loose the reins and let them run.