If you’ve been scrolling through Reddit lately as I have or talking to high school seniors, you know that waiting for college decisions can feel like absolute torture. The uncertainty, the constant “where are you going to college?” questions, and the fear of rejection make this one of the most emotionally exhausting times of your life. You’re not alone in feeling this way.

The Emotional Rollercoaster of College Decisions

Some students are feeling hopeless. Others have stopped sleeping entirely. Some have even joked about “ways to torture yourself after not getting in.” The reality is that this waiting period is filled with anxiety, self-doubt, and sometimes even despair. But here’s the truth: No matter what happens, this moment does not define your future.